I don't have kids, and have dealt very little with special needs, so any advice I could give would be something you have already heard, but a little word of encourage sometimes goes a long way, so that's what I'll contribute.

I have had that feeling of walking on a tightrope, and what I have learned is in this life everything goes through seasons, some seasons are much longer that others but all seasons one day come to an end. Either seasons get better or you get stronger.

Cheering for you, your husband and the little one