we are us and will never be someone else

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We often see how other people's lives are very pleasant and so easy to live. Everything looks always fine for them and always feels great to our eyes. Not only do we feel for those we idolize, but for other people who are ordinary and in our closest environment.

Actually having such feelings is not a big problem, as long as it is still in a reasonable or positive state. But if it turns out we have been overdoing it, then it could be something that is disturbing and even a problem in our lives.

When we are amazed at someone, often we will want us to be in their position. In fact, we will always think that everything in them is so pleasant and their lives can run smoothly without any obstacles at all.

actually things like this are a mistake, because in reality everyone must have problems and also various obstacles in their lives, but we often do not see that clearly. It can be that someone has a very good ability to overcome various problems, so that we never see or find difficulties in their lives.

But on the other hand, maybe we are someone with a mindset that is a little narrow and so easy and fragile when faced with various problems and challenges in life. Often giving up on the situation and only dreaming of a situation that is far better than now, one of them by putting yourself into someone with a more pleasant life.

Things like this will make us never face the problems we experience, because we are too busy "enjoying" what other people have in their lives.

Actually they are also ordinary people like us, so don't assume that they are always fine without a problem or obstacle in their lives. The way they deal with these various problems is what then becomes more value in themselves, which we may never have planted in ourselves until now. Remember you are not him, so don't ever think of having the same way of life.

Whatever conditions we experience at this time, of course that is something that should be grateful. There is no need to complain and feel yourself to be the most unfortunate person in the world, so that everyone else becomes someone who is far more fortunate than ourselves. This is a wrong mindset and must be abandoned immediately.

Look at the success of others as a motivation for us to achieve our success, don't just look at it and dream only if we become them now, but on the other hand we do nothing to make it happen. If we want success, then do whatever will bring us there. No need to feel inferior and feel unable to do it, because if we want, then we will be able.

Life is not a complaint or just wishful thinking passed in a fairy tale, but this is a reality, where you become someone who has a complete personal life like everyone else around you, and reminded once again, you are not him never think of being the same as other people, because every human being has a life and its problems.