How sex became a pathetic excuse for mistakes

I know, I know, that the topic of physiological, especially sex is already severely beaten and everyone is pretty tired with it. But meanwhile, the wave of interest and disputes does not want to slow down.
What an irony, isn’t it?
So, I also want to speak too. My speech will be about sex, of course.
Sex is not just a reciprocating movement, not a spark between bodies, described by confused novelists. It’s complicated. Sex is like owls, which are not what they seem.

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More specifically, sex is NOT BASIC NEEDS in our modern world. What to say, today you do not even need to look for a "male" to become a mother.
Basic needs – this is the set of pieces, without which we would have died a long time ago. This can include our need for food, rest-sleep, the need for warmth and safety, to avoid damage to the body that would lead to imminent death, the need for breathing and movement.
Let me explain, how I see it. A person without food will die in 10 days, without water even earlier. A person deprived of motion will receive atrophied muscles and pressure sores, which will not give him either joy or health. A person, who has suffered injuries, is ill, feels uncomfortable and dies in the darkest scenario.
The person deprived of sex, goes with a sore mine and in the evenings writes on social networks that it’s all sht.*
From this, we can assume that sex is not a need. No one has yet died in agony about not having sex since last autumn or that he never became a parent – did not realize his basic function in procreation.
Sex – is not a need, it is a kind of joy, a bright release of our hormones.
It can be compared to chocolate. I love chocolate. I love all its varieties and everything connected with it. He is wonderful. If I could play any musical instrument, then I would dedicate a song to it.
I can write a book about it, I can paint pictures of it, and not even be too lazy to go out to the store in a crappy weather. It’s just because chocolate deserves it.
But no one will say that chocolate is a need. Same thing happens to sex. To hide behind it, to explain our weaknesses with it, to mix lies with the common need and partner’s betrayal with some cute waitress – is no longer relevant.

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All these phrases are like, "I am young woman and I have my own needs», "You must understand me, man, my wife has not given me a month. What else could I do?" – complete nonsense.
You can love chocolate as much as you like, want it every day. But if you are ready to spit in your partner’s face for some chocolate bar, betray him without even thinking, then you have a very big problems. And their root, no matter how trite it is, is not in the chocolate itself.
In fact, we are very kind at heart and often indulgent to those who screw up in this life. It’s because everybody do wrong things. Still no one with foam at his mouth would shame a man who decided to steal food or money for the sake of survival because he was hungry as hell.
Sex is different. You can’t sneak it out, snatch it out of the old lady’s hands in an alley. There are always two persons in this process, and one of them, unfortunately, can become a victim of the next need for some maniac. It cripples lives, it can even lead to real death.
And it’s just because some are convinced that sex is a need. And if it is so, it can be required. As the right to food, the right to move, right to sex, right to regular three bars of chocolate a day. Sounds like bullsh*t.
Friends, remember that sex is not a requirement. Sex is a wonderful action, it is magic which nobody HAS TO give you by default.