I'll be 45 this year and I've been having hot flashes and mood swings like I've never had before. I think the only "fight" my husband and I ever really had was over the thermostat! Oh, and there's the time when I was overheated and he kept covering me with the blanket. I tossed the blanket to the floor where he couldn't reach it and nearly booted him too. LOL Poor guy. He was doing that in his sleep and woke up shivering and nearly blue.