I always woo to parents who pressure anf push their children into marriages for the gains in most cases theirs, not caring what happens to the child afterwards.
to some women its a "crime" to be a Man because the man is expected to provide everything. see tis lady who has no means of taking care of herself in the first place let alone assisting the man but wants to get married at all cost. You point exactly here She wants to get away from her house n family (wrong motive). Aside that most likely nothing else.
Recently, a certain young chap n celeb got married to someone folks have jokingly tagged as her ancestor. With doubt it can be easily inferred why she got to that point with the Man who is way far older. Age is not a factor but putting a parameters in place we can conveniently conclude that there is more to that than meets the eye.(Wrong motive).
A lady once got married to a very wealthy man almost 5 times her ageand beforw long got pregnant.Fast forwardat his demise she got nothing, not even fairly used toothbrush and thus resorted to destroy the home she met.(Wrong motive)
May God guide Us all especially the yet to be married.
thanks for sharing sir