I totally agree with you@doitvoluntarily.
We are all created to be different and run our own race.
Some people love planting and growing their own foods or doing things by themselves and some prefer not too because there is no desire to do it or whatever the reason is and that is perfectly normal because we are here to run our own race and follow what our heart desires so don't waste time trying to live up to someone elses expectations because you will never be happy.
Great post @doitvolutarily