To love is to hold someone elses heart above your own. To esteem them better than yourself. To love is to find value in another and show that person that value that you see in them. To be loved is to realize that we are valued by that person in return. If a man loves a woman he will make her feel like a woman. Like the most desirable person in the world. If a woman loves a man she will make him feel that way too. When we feel it, then we know we are loved also.