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RE: Does TRUE LOVE actually exist?
If you are looking for "true love" outside of yourself then you are looking in the wrong direction. You need to go inwards, through many layers of the glass onion. Through despair, hurt, envy, anger, fear until, at the very core of your being, there it is: True Love. And that true love will now shine out upon the world.
To spend one's life looking for true love in the world is a fool's errand.
You are absolutely right! But isn't it possible that for once, you find a part of your inner self in the outer world?
Imagine that: you look outwards and find that person who completes you. They are your other half. Isn't that possible?
Once you have found true love at the core of your being, you are complete. You don't need anything outside of yourself to complete you. You may delight in sharing the love that you are with another being. But you definitely do not need that to complete you.
Suppose, rather than going inwards to find true love, you searched the world until you found that one person that you think "completes you" and you fall madly "in love". What happens when she dies? You are "incomplete" again?
Bingo. Good relationships are made up of two wholes, not two parts of a whole.