Is it Possible to Love Someone Too Much?

in #love5 years ago

@TribeSteemUp, I am late on responding this question again but I still do want to.

I believe Love is the most beautiful feeling that exist in this whole world. Imagine a life with no existence of love in it. How terrible it will be.
While there are many people who cross our paths in our lifetime and we have a fond loving feeling for them, but then there are times when some relationships become so so special that you give out yourself unconditionally to them and this is the most beautiful feeling.

I feel if you do not have such 1 person in your life who you can love unconditionally with no boundaries, with no ifs and buts, with not analyzing the person, overlooking the flaws of the person, not bothered about the status of the person, accepting the person as is, then you truly are in Love with the person with all your heart out. But there is a very thin line between from Loving someone Unconditionally to Loving someone too much.

Too much Love or Obsession


Unconditional Love normally comes with a lot of understanding and freedom in the relation but if you cannot draw a line and control your emotions then this Unconditional Love can turn into an obsession. Yes it is very much possible to Love someone too much without any limitations without any conditions, just the most loving compassionate relation. And ideally these relationships are painful. While they bring in lot of Joy and happiness but at the same time they also bring in a lot of hurt also. Again if the feeling is not mutual it becomes stressful for the person who is completely involved in it and to an extent it also gets into a stage of nagging. Loving someone too much can create a lot of havoc in your life, because if the opposite person does not have a similar feeling then you give in the power to them to manipulate and play with your feelings.

Too much Love can also lead to Selfish behavior because then you are only concerned about what you want and this can be harmful for the opposite person.

But all said and done when this feeling starts building up it is the most amazing thing happening to you. When you raise your vibrations to the frequency of Love everything around you starts resonating in the frequency and you see beauty in every single thing around you. The feeling is special, it will sway you off your feet and you want to dance and sing. You will love everything that comes across. Such is the Power of Love. You want the person's presence all the time with you.

Loving someone too much is not always about a Man and a Woman, it can be in any relation. It is also between a Mother and a Child or Siblings, or any relation in that matter.
I can relate to my own self on this. Yes I Love my Son too much and sometimes I see that I fall into destructive behavior with this excess feeling. There are times when I feel insecure and then there are times when I keep worrying about the future and then there are times when I blindly sway into whatever he says. I would want to go all out and do everything for him even though if it is not in my capacity. I consciously try to control my behavior at times and be in balance but yes there are slippages and I do not deny on that.

So you see too much Love can eventually become stress also for the opposite person and for own-self also because when the expectations are not met you feel dejected, anxious and insecure which is not good for the health.

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The idea of "loving too much" is NOT THE SAME as unconditional love. "Loving too much" is co-dependency an actually not love at all. Anytime there is destructive behavior it's not love, but it takes a huge amount of awareness and courage to call that. And to change.

Love is freeing, generous, constructive, accepting and enabling. Always.


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Very well said my dear. When You Love someone truly there are no conditions 💗

Yes...you can do anythings. . .😬

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