For you to be a diversion, it means that you are a distraction, it means that he still Loves his EX, he is only using you to pass time.

Believe me He's not over her, so watch out before you get your heart broken.

Every Woman wants a man with the X Factor, but "ex" factor is a total NO NO of every woman. It is a fact that as women, we have a very good sense of knowing when something is wrong. We are so gifted with that ability. Our instincts are always right.

But love has concealed our eyes and minds that we consciously ignore the red lights right before us. Isn't it preferable to avoid or prevent the humiliation of been a diversion or a mere replacement, simply by observing some of his/her attitude or habit?.

As a medium of helping you regain your happiness and self worth, I'm going to be sharing this signs to show he/she is not over their formal relationship, that might not be healthy for your relationship. Don't worry thank me later.

1. EVERY BIT OF A THING YOU DO REMINDS HIM/HER OF THEIR EXs.

Imagine that you were suppose to have a night to remember with him, starting with a dinner, the very moment your order comes, with joy and so much excitement he says that his ex-girlfriend makes that same order too. You actually ignore that comment, but then when the evening keeps progressing, the references keeps increasing, and by the end of the day you notice that he has spoken More about his ex than he even did about himself.

1. HE/HER EVEN TALKS ABOUT THEIR EXs DURING INTIMACY.

OK this is so crazy and this is not repairable, you might have forgiven him/her for disrupting dinner, but comments about him or her during intimacy is a total deal breaker. There us nothing more disgusting than imagining that you are inside of her while he is just inside of you. Or teaching you the sex play she taught him last. That is almost the craziest thing I have imagined.

1. HE/SHE KNOWS SOME INFORMATION BEFORE YOU.

It hurts so bad so bad when an information that you married supposed to be told first actually gets to their ex before you. By right as the girlfriend or boyfriend you ought to know first. But if things happen otherwise believe me your relationship is at stake, But then if you complain he/she will bring the friend tag like "He/She is a close friend"... Excuse you!!!

1. HE/HER KEEPS STALKING THEIR EXs ON SOCIAL MEDIA.

I am not saying that it is a crime to like his/her photos and stuffs on social media, when it is disturbing is when it becomes excessive, it then becomes a problem, even when it doesn't make sense. This becomes weird and annoying when he does not do the same with yours.

Boyfriend/girlfriend you have to take heed, if you see the red lights, please run, run and keep running. You need to be happy and fulfilled. You cannot be a diversion and be happy.