It is not very common for men to debate the subject of their first time and it is even less common to discuss it with their girl, however, they address the important issue to avoid unpleasant situations for both. Most men have gone through unpleasant and traumatic situations and is more for lack of communication, shyness or embarrassment due to lack of experience. It is typical to hear that the first time is only important for girls, but this is not all true.