Make Sure Your Happiness Before You Make Others Happy Simply put, when you decide to choose someone else as your life partner. You will hope to give happiness to the people you care about and love. You must try to make it comfortable with you. But that will only happen after you feel satisfied and enough with the happiness you get. Let's say you've been working and you've been able to support yourself.

This happiness does not mean much material and abundant wealth. But happiness live and keep each other together. So before you decide to please others, you have to make sure you're happy yourself. So that you do not regret in the future.

You Do not Have To Be What He Wants, Because Life Is Yours
Everyone has their own choices in navigating this life. They are free to walk forward, backward, and turn left or right. Just as you, having the freedom to change or not is your due, entirely, because your life is yours and God. But every step you take still has its own risks. So if you do not like the changes your partner wants, you can either refuse or be forced to accept them for loving him too much. But obviously if you feel uncomfortable, you do not have to obey what he wants.

You Do not Need To Be Afraid To Step Away, When It's For Your Happiness
When you decide to end a relationship that you think is vague and endless. You may be overwhelmed by anxiety. As the assumption 'can I live away from him?' And so forth. All you have to remember is that you can go wherever you want, and nobody else can stop you especially since he's not yet fully part of your life. Especially if with him you feel did not find your happiness. Maybe it's a sign that he is not the right person to be the foundation of your heart.

You Have to Love Yourself More Than Others, Because Who Knows You Are Only You
When you feel very sick, the first person who will help you is yourself. Yes, you know who you are. Anything you like, who you love and other questions. What you need to do too is keep loving yourself and do not let other people hurt and change you as they please. When you are in a relationship and he always demands anything from you with love, then before you say it, you have to think about your happiness first. Does he really love you with all his demands? What risks do you get if you follow his instructions?

It's Not A Selfishness, But Loving Yourself Is Defense
If you meet a criminal on the street and he is trying to hurt you, you must think of many ways to ask someone for help or to beat the criminal to be deterrent. It is not selfishness or evil. But you are trying to defend yourself. Because you realize you are in danger and no one can help you. Just like relationships, if your partner shows signs of hurting you, you can fight him as a form of your defense. Again, this is not your selfishness. You have the right as a human being to gain happiness.