Since my sweetheart, Marcia, passed away a year ago, I have learned just how fickle these dating sites are. People truly are not looking for a serious relationship. It is a much different world out there. Folks carry all their baggage of fears with them when they meet someone and that person inherits the crap. It seems like the good ones are either taken o maybe widowed if you are lucky. The widowed have generally proven their value. I met Marcia on a dating site and it worked. However I think she was the RARE exception rather than the rule. Thanks or the story.