We Are Shaped By It II, Contributed By @Olawalium
…continued… from part 1
She changed his thinking and challenged his character which is exactly what he needed. Your association would determine how far you will go in life. When you walk with giants, you won’t only see far but you will go far. You will remain the same in 5 years except for two things; the company you keep and the books you read. With the right kind of association, you will move faster and go higher but with the wrong kinds, you can be so sure you will sink deeper and faster too.
She told him that he can keep the money he is receiving from the Federal Government and also his place of work and challenged him to never touch the money his father sends. He reluctantly agreed and she collected the ATM card to that account that the father sends money into and even the mobile SIM that receives that alert. She kept it and after about a year when he was done with service, she took him to the ATM and then showed him the balance; to at least earn his trust that she never touched the money and to see the joy in savings. He was over the moon and excited.
He took her home, introduced her to the family and everyone accepted her. She bonded with the mother so fast that she would call her to come to the house and help them out when they have a family function that requires extra hand and of course the cooking aspect too. She is humble and would always go. She loves helping out.
One morning, the guy requested for his card because he wanted to do some business. She gave him the card because she believed it was really for business, not know he actually wanted to buy a car with it. She never questioned him but she told him he should have been honest about it. They got really close and comfortable and you could see they were destined for marriage.
…to be continued…
Thank you for your time.
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He who find a wife indeed find a good thing and obtain favour from God. This lady is a very good wife material, not all ladies would do that.
Waiting for the concluding part of the story
Absolutely, not all ladies can do that. When you find a lady that challenges you to be better, never let her go. A lot of guys hate a lady that questions their thinking because they want ladies to do whatever they say. Very few ladies can challenge the way a man thinks and this is what makes this lady special.
Always good to have you here.
Hmmmmm!!! this is really good.
i love the beginning of the continued part of this stroy and also the body but i perceive something i could be right it wrong. in either case the story is finished tho am just trying to keep myself from thinking it all went rosy n sweet. nevertheless the lady is wonderful influence to tis young man and has thus far shaped his life.
Implying that not only situations can shape us folks and people we come in contact with still go a long way. thanks for sharing.
Yes, the lady is a wonderful influence on the lady and the problem with some guys is that when they have this good influence around them, because of where they are coming from, they take the lady for granted and use their bad experience to ruin the good thing going for them.
Thanks for your comment. See you around.
We really have to conscious of those we will be going out with. Though, no single person can survive or make it only in this world without receiving help or support from other but we are to be careful in selecting those we will be going out with. It turned out to work well with the guy because he found the right lady who really wanted to add to him and not to just take like most ladies in our community today.
As you have said those we mingle with will surely have a negative or positive influence depending on the one will choose. The best is for one to look out well before going out with friends or try to be more careful while dealing with peers.