We Are Shaped By It, Contributed By @Olawalium
Whether we like it or not or whether we try to give an excuse for it or not, we are shaped by our experiences and our exposures. What we have been used to or exposed to overtime has a way of staying with us (it has a way of messing with our heads and make us question a lot of things).
A relationship requires a smart mind and a considerate being. You need to go into it with your head as well as with your heart because a balance is needed in every aspect of life. You can’t be too emotional and be detached from reality and you can’t be too real that you will not allow yourself to feel anything.
When your partner is not making you feel better then what’s the point in staying with such a person? And when you are blessed to meet someone who makes you better and turn your life around, try to hold on to them and also believe them.
I know of a young lady that started dating a guy that is slightly older than her. The guy is from a well to do family and a spoilt guy too. He was serving as at then and yet the father still sends him monthly allowances. In fact, the allowance is like 5 times the money he received from the Federal Government as allowance and also he gets paid from where he is working as well. He had that multiple streams of income but he had no savings.
He is an outgoing guy who enjoys the company of his friends and because they know how rich he is, the demand is always on him to foot the bills every time they go on an outing and you can imagine how much of the drinks they would order for, knowing that they won’t be the one to foot the bills. This lady came into his life and changed things. She made him better.
…to be continued…
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The most beautiful thing about experience is that you can't run from them. We acquire them as we live.
You have the right to either make yourself better or worse by your experiences, it's all in your choice.
Looking forward to the concluding part of the guy's story.
We gather those experiences as we grow and go through lives and we can allow it to hinder us or push us to greater heights, it is all about our choice. A lot of people have been caged with their experience that prevented them from reaching their full potentials. We should be able to differentiate between our experience and also a reality as we go through life.
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We are shaped by "it". is a deep srcipt that Portrays that life is full of experiences and which we cant run away from no matter how hard we try. it is however imperative to endeavor to align our lives with those beautiful people and consequently lifestyles that will shape our lives in the best productive ways. thanks for sharing sir.
This is beautiful. Well done. Yes, our association and our experiences would determine how far we can go. We are always shaped by it. When you see someone behave in a particular way or hold a particular belief, it is as a result of what that person has been exposed to.
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Whether we like it or not we are shaped by our experience and exposure in life. Where we are born, where we grew up and our community have a greatest impact on how our life will unfold though, we can always change our ways but it is quite rare unless one is determined. This is so because I believe there is always a room for improvement as long as you are ready for change and shun the old negative things you have experienced in life due to your experience and exposure.
Just like a child speak and think in the language of his community rather than the language of his parents. That is how we are shaped and form by our experience and exposure. But we can always make a difference if we evaluate our experiences which will make us surge forward in all our endeavor positively.