I agree @jordanlove.

Far too often, too much weight has been put on it. And the flip side is just as extreme, not enough attention is given to it.

For men, it should be about giving her enough confidence and comfort to share this moment with you.

We are all sexual creatures. We want to have good sex. The key is to have courage and don't be lazy. Learn what it takes to give good sex and you shall have good sex.

Educate yourself just as how this post intends.

It is part of growing up.