Hello friend @robertgenito, I hope you are well because of his absence. In my opinion When we feel very positive, proud of what we do and what we are, with a good self-esteem is where we shine with our own light, but there are many dark people that can turn off lights. As a saying that says "FRIENDS ARE LIKE THE SHADOWS, ARE ON OUR SIDE IN BRIGHT MOMENTS, BUT DISAPPEAR IN OUR DARK MOMENTS". BLESSINGS