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RE: I am in love with a man with many faults. Should I take a chance and marry him?
@nomad-magus please tell me your thoughts on this... is letting go a form of love? If you really love the person isnt he/she worth fighting for? why let go? It is so common to everyone the phrase of letting go... Thank You!
@aldousph, I understand the confusion.
If you really love a person then you put their high needs before your own ego driven needs.
Think about it, basically there are two main reasons you would want to fight for someone: 1) you think that your love would help them 2) you want them in your life so you feel better, feel more loveable. Both reasons put you in the center. Even in reason 1, you think you know better what would be good for them.
But when people want to leave you it means that something within them, a higher level, soul level, knows that being with you is not a good thing for their personal growth or your growth!
As if there is a subconscious communication between you two saying "no, right now is not the good time for a relstiondhip". Therfore, fighting for them actually contradicts higher orders. And that is not something you want.
Owww that is so nice hearing from you sir. I am enlightened. thank you so much! be following your posts soon... im excited