My Opinion On Snooping Through Your Partners Phone

in #lifestyle5 years ago (edited)
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Writing on this topic was inspired after i read Elaebi's Post on the issue and she raised really good fair points against snooping like its a sign of immaturity, it breed distrust, misunderstanding and leads to pain & breakups. Okay i finally made my decision and i agree snooping in the sense of going through your partners chats, messages, call logs & so on without their consent or when he/she is alseep is wrong, but do you rather stay blind in a relationship?

What i don't like is a situation where my girlfriend get really mad when she is not around and i pick her calls. Or the other situtation where we are lying on the bed, she's on her phone chatting and i playfully try to peep a little and see what exactly she's doing and she's seriously hiding her phone. Okay check this scenerio where we are together and someone calls her on her phone and she leaves your presence to answer the call.

Behaviours like that really hurts and it makes you curious at the end of the day to know what exactly what she's been up to. The worst part is when i try on my own ends to let her know its okay for her to pick my own calls if i'm not around, I even try to answer all my calls in front of her and i show her my chats if she wants but she doesn't do the same. Your trust begin to melt down and thats why people end up snooping through their partners phone without their concent.

Relationship is about trust and we have privacy too but sometimes when you just keep quiet, over look those signs and do nothing, one day she will tell you the relationship is over. You end up wondering where that just came from. But sometimes snooping helps when you notice something is going wrong and it helps find out exactly whats wrong. You immediately start looking for ways to tackle the problem head on. So i totally get why people snoop through their partners phone.

Maybe the problem isn't really snooping but doing it right and making sure you don't get caught lol😁 But on a more serious note, i still think its about how you react to whatever you find. Don't fight your girlfriend rather fight the problem. Example, if a guy is onto your girlfriend, you can try find out what the guy is doing that you are not. Again, come on you don't have to read meaning into little things like a deleted chat. Just make sure you evidence is concret and you not being paranoid. That's my opinion, let me know what you think down below.

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Firstly it is @elaebi, spell it correctly hun. And secondly if your girlfriend gives you those kind of acts like u mentioned in your post, then you really should ask questions instead of snooping no matter how curious u might be honey.

Right right. I wanna know, what the meaning of Elaebi and what language is that?

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