Yes, you're right. Behind all this hype of gender equality, we also need to recognise the inherent biological differences too. But that said, clothing style should not be made the benchmark to differentiate it.

I can understand your feeling of comfort in the dressing style of your preference. But current social norms have a good influence over it. Our actions are guided by what society judges to be appropriate or not. But gender-equality movement wants to change those social norms of what is right and wrong. Once the gender-neutral dressing gains widespread acceptability, we all will feel comfortable in that too.