Middle child syndrome - I hear ya!

My mother had three kids with three different dads. Unfortunately mine was the biggest loser of the lot - a drunk and a suicide. Somehow I would up being the emotional favorite while getting shafted in the resource department. Brother and sister both got private school - but I learned to fight on the playground. Life's complicated like that.

Glad you found a way to test your Grandma. Did she ever respond to the evidence?