[Life Advice #5]Winners find ways for their success; losers make excuses for their failure
Do you ever done something wrong or didn’t finish something in time?
And you tends to find a lot of excuses to explain why you have done something wrong?
Life, many people has the same thing in common which is they complain too much.
When you can’t hit your sales target, you complained you met bad customers, the products you selling not good enough and etc.
When you have slow construction work progress, you complained about the task is too difficult, it’s the bad weather, the manufacturer's doesn’t cooperate with you and etc.
When you can’t finish your job in time, you complained about not enough time, lack of information, bad hardware and software and etc.
When you failed to build your own career, you complained that your parent doesn’t give you startup money, your family members don’t support you and etc.
You see, these excuses feel right, but you will find out that all those excuses are not blaming yourself, but blaming other people. These excuses are for those who “failed” in their life.
There are many people who have the same problems, when the issues come to them, maybe they failed before, or maybe they haven’t even begin yet, In order to pass the bucket, or doesn’t want to take responsibility of the job, they will find all kinds of excuses, trying to get rid of responsibility.
"Excuses", are actually used by those who do not want to take responsibility when things go wrong.
Maybe they want to cover up the real reasons of failure, or they just don’t want others to know they did wrong. But when you review the issue and found out the truth, the person who did wrong in the first place will feel embarrassed and looked down by the others.
Since the mistakes and failures have already been done, if you’re giving all kinds of reasons to rationalize your wrong, then you will be creating mistake within other mistake.
When you done something wrong, or failed to do something, it is not shameful.
Don’t be afraid to admit your mistake, face your mistake, that’s the way to be responsible.
A famous word: "Winners find ways for their success; losers make excuses for their failure."
We do not give excuses for our failure, we must find a way to success.
Excuses will make us stuck in our life, excuses will stop us from moving forward.
If you want to improve yourself, then find the courage to face the mistake, don’t make any excuse for your own mistakes.
So, do you want to be a winner or a loser?