How to be a fun person?
I think of myself as a boring person.
Whether in school or outside doing part-time, my performance is "boring."
In order to blend in with the class, get along better with other students, move over the boring boundaries, I used to play the role of a clown, with a stiff smile on my face.
Although there are many people around me, but I still feel lonely.
I read a story before online.
A man went to consult a psychologist: "How to be a fun person?"
The psychologist told him that there was a new clown in town, you just have to look at the clown's performance, and you will know how to make yourself interesting.
The man said to the psychologist, "I am the clown."
A clumsy person on the stage, bring people laughter, perhaps after the stage, he/she is a sad and lonely person.
We all had been given a clown's mask. The mask is always a grin, we won’t know the joy and fear under the mask. When they take off the mask, only then we understand, they are also living people, also have their own feelings.
How to be a fun person?
I asked myself many times in my heart.
Everyone likes to be with people who are humorous and funny.
I have tried to become a humorous person, with a few jokes, can make people around laugh, at the same time when others are happy, I will feel happy and also get recognition.
By observing the fun friends around me, they have three common characteristics:
(1) Love life: Humor stems from life, is another manifestation of self-expression, so if a person who does not love life, he/she can not live humorously. If you can face the hardship in life with a positive and optimistic attitude; after experienced all the ups and downs, your heart is widened, your humor will become more realistic and can infect everyone around.
(2) Recognize yourself: Your first audience is actually yourself, if you can’t laugh at your own joke, then it’s hard for others to laugh at your joke. From the bottom of your heart, hope that you can become a humorous person, and agree with the way you speak.
(3) Liberating nature: Just like all students who study performing and art majors, acting class is generally the beginning of the need to liberate nature. Today's liberation of nature is to learn to release yourself. At the appropriate time, self-ridicule, alleviate the atmosphere, don’t care about the surrounding people's reaction, and as always, humorous, after a while, there's always someone will be infected by you.
However, many times, our worldview is too monotonous, good people, bad people, fun, boring, if it’s not black, then it is white, but never thinking of human nature.
Human nature is plural, there is no verdict, and from different positions, the view will be different too.
Fun and boring are also dialectical.
I am boring in your eyes, perhaps because you do not deserve me to be fun in front of you, so I behaved to make you feel boring.
No matter how boring a person is, there will always someone in the world that thinks he/she is fun. We are born different, but there is always a heart waiting for everyone, waiting for each other to generate the interesting sparks.
Sometimes, it turns out that we're consuming the concept of "fun" too much, interesting people, interesting movies, interesting things, actually a rather poor topic, and a world that keeps us from thinking about each other is far from easy.
Only by living out the real you and the way you like is an interesting and fun life.
Posted from my blog with SteemPress : http://walkinharmony.vornix.blog/2018/08/15/how-to-be-a-fun-person/
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