Live the life you want, live to become who you want to become
Everyone is the writer of their own life, why write your script miserable, even if life is just a boring drama, we still have to live in fragrance for the drama.
The success of people are in all shapes, there are countless beautiful things in this world. When you are young, you should figure out what kind of life you want, burn yourself when you are young and hope that you will finally be able to live the life you want.
Sometimes I will ask myself, what kind of life do I want to live in? Until now, I still cannot describe exactly. But I can sketch the contours of that life from the opposite angle. Yes, I know very well that what kind of life I don't want to have. In short, I don’t want to be unemployed after graduation, don’t want to aimless mediocrity, don’t want to bend to the various oppression of life.
However, we are burdened with too many people's expectations, parents' expectation, teacher's teaching, relatives and friends' expectation. We often live in tiredness, feel that we must rise to the top, must not disappoint everyone entrusted, as the person they look forward to, our life will be a success. So we strive to insist and trying to meet others expectations but forget about ourselves.
Many hearts yearning for wandering and free people, choose to shut themselves in the big city cubicle room, work hard, in order to clear the mortgage loans, they give up their dream, live as someone else's appearance for others. Their anxieties and blues are only visible in bars after nightfall.
In there, they remember their dreams by alcohol, and they see themselves in alcohol. Relying on anesthesia and imagination to find their true self, this is a lot of people helpless choice. People often say that they are forced by life, cannot live according to their own heart. In fact, the opportunity is always there, it is really because you give it up.
20 years old, life is just begun, faced with the choice of life, we chose a way that looks right but not the way we want, but this time the dream is still there. We think that the dream must have a material basis as a support. When we have money, we will return to dream. So, we think money is everything, thinking money can realize the dream, but is it true?
Maybe we get married and have children around 35 years old, fall into the pressure of promotion and projects, our dream gradually fade, we seem to accumulate some material basis, but maybe we have been toss around in life and even our dream is gone.
However, at around 40 years old, we successfully cleared the mortgage and car loans, but it seems that when people near middle age, think about how to start again, what they have now, although not what they wanted the most, but seem to be both successful and happy, what’s the point of starting over again? So we seal off our dream, never mention about it anymore.
Life is very short, time is very ruthless, maybe we unknowingly passed through life. At that time our dream, just like the youth did not vindicate the first love, become untouchable the past, we do not have a daily fight for our dream, we always feel, such a life, as if something was wrong.
Sometimes, I admire all the people who try to live up to what they want, whether you are a teenager stubborn, the youth fearless effort, or middle age not hesitate to start over, even when old age to regain the dream, at any time in your life, you can choose what you want to do, to live the life you want, this is all admirable.
Because you will eventually find that you don't have to be responsible for anyone, you should be responsible for your own life. I hope you can put aside all your thoughts and live without fear.
But we also have our own degrees, in “The Moon and Sixpence," the protagonist give up everything in Paris for his dream. On an ordinary day, leaving home without warning. Not even mention it to the wife who has been married for 17 years. There was a so-called "sixpence on the floor, but he looked up and saw the moon." We should also reflect upon and not deny his behavior.
Many times the choice to pursue a dream doesn't need you to give up everything you have now, as long as you have more patience and perseverance, you can continue to pursue of the life you want without giving up anything.
It's never too late for this day to come. As long as you want, you can do it at any time in your life, follow the voice of your heart, go on without hesitation, to live the life you want to live and become what you want. If you still don't have the courage, say to yourself: “I want to do this thing, the most appropriate time, is always now!"
Posted from my blog with SteemPress : http://walkinharmony.vornix.blog/2018/08/14/live-the-life-you-want-live-to-become-who-you-want-to-become/
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