It's all about actions. You have to choose carefully how you use your time and energy in your lifespam because both are limited. I like the chess analogy because I can relate to it. Here's why. When I was 7 my father taught me how to play chess. At 9 I beat one of my uncles in 10 moves and he was genually pissed to be beaten by a kid (I used a variation of the sheppeard trick). I knew at that time I could be good at this if I dedicated time to it, but decided later to pursue other interests. There is still 3 frogs even if they are on the log or not.....