I agree that we should openly challenge when people presume to tell us what health, beauty is; We also need to openly challenge what we tell ourselves health and beauty is. As with any decision, we should look to scientific data to guide our decisions when considering something impactful, like health (I think the concept of beauty is so personal and the level of consequence in a person's life is as well).

We respect one another best when we provide an openness toward honest communication, regardless the topic.