End the suffering in your relationships with these activating questions...

How can you be disappointed by someone you're fully committed to serving?

When you have expectations that they are required to serve you in the same way.

How can you be afraid of anything you are fully committed to serving?

When you are scared of your own willingness to fight.
And when you have an expectation that the feeling of safety is outside of you.

Victimhood arises in a being who serves others but doesn't serve themselves in the same way.

What creates victimhood?

Expectations

What creates empowerment?

Recognizing that only we can love ourselves the way we need to be loved....and that our deepest purpose is to serve.

How does the empowered divine move?

It moves in service to all.

You cannot fully serve someone and suffer at the same time.

You suffer when you have expectations.

How can you start living in your true vibrational essence instead of waiting for the world around you to wake up?

Forgive YOU...love ALL of you...not just the "good" parts.

Why waste your time lowering your expectations when you can let go of them completely?

It's only once you commit to loving yourself...unconditionally...that you can let go of all expectations of others.

What's keeping you from fully surrendering and opening as love?

You still have something to lose.

Greet every person in your life (including the disowned aspects of yourself) with the same awe and respect as a delicate passing butterfly. If they choose to stay, consider it a miracle.

Loving ALL of you,

Pachee

Find similar content here in my recent post on relationship paradigm shifts...
https://steemit.com/life/@thegiftofself/who-s-ready-for-a-relationship-paradigm-shift-from-soul-mates-to-whole-mates