What women are looking for? The answer is pretty easy.

in #life6 years ago (edited)

Hi steemers,

In the previous post we learned that women test men in order to make the best choice for their mate.

Of course, many women want the most virile man on the market, but a product in higher demand requires a higher price; therefore other women will want him and will try to seduce him as well.

It's never a good idea for her to get pregnant to catch him; because, in her pregnant state, she takes herself virtually out of the playing field, and he may be tempted to look elsewhere.

Remember, one of the most important words to a woman in a relationship is unity. (Another important word is balance but we will discuss that later).

It’s not difficult to see the woman’s duality: she wants a real stud, but meanwhile she wants a sweetheart, who only has eyes for her. On the one hand she wants the lover, who can fulfill her sexual needs and desires. On the other hand she needs the provider, who supports the family financially, and who supports her emotionally with his presence and attention.

Have you ever wondered She doesn’t even know what she wants!
Well, she knows what she wants, but her choices are typically contradictory, and most of the time she has to choose just one or the other.

It is at this point that the balance comes into play. The ideal man for a woman can balance both sides. He can possess characteristics from both categories.


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So far we have discussed how women select their 'victim' (or to be politically correct, 'choose their man') and the characteristics that he must possess to be chosen by her.

But unfortunately for these women, the world is not filled with a plentiful selection of “real studs”.
Realistically, most men are sweethearts seeking a woman’s approval, ready to serve a woman just to please her. The reason may be that they are trained to be this way from a very young age.

One solution for a woman to choose her ideal man (or what she thinks will fit all of her criteria), is to put the 'candidates' for her selection through a series of "tests".

Let me know what do you think leaving a comment and if you have questions do not hesitate to ask!

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