I think the most exciting and beautiful thing about a wedding is everything that happens before the big event. All the stress involved in choosing the place, selecting the guests, the music, the food to be served, the best cake, the most beautiful dress. Even all the things that go wrong, in the end will become what you will remember with more affection. So enjoy that stress, enjoy what did not go as expected. Let them rain, because perfect weddings are boring and nobody remembers them! After a few years, when you look at the pictures it will be a fun time to share with the family.