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RE: The Pain of a Miscarriage Never Goes Away...
First off hugs and I know the loss never goes away, I do know how it feels all be it from the husbands perspective which I know is different to the mothers of course and not saying it is anywhere the same, I wont go into the details of our losses, to distract from your post and feelings.
The person that said that to you was probably well-meaning, but from experience, I know often people just do not know what to say and how to comfort you and the things that come out of their mouth are not with the brain fully engaged and come across as so heartless even though they do not mean to be
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Thank you so much. Although you didn’t go in depth I want to say I am sorry for whatever loss you and your family experienced...it’s never easy but we find ways to be able to go on.
I appreciate you saying that about people just not knowing what to say. I have actually been there before myself. I think it really hurt because I was at a very emotionally place in my life and it came off as “it could be worse” and to me it was already worse. I was able to move pass it though because I realized they had never been in my shoes.
Thanks again ~ ☺️
I can fully understand why that hurt, it is only natural, Until I had been in that situation myself a couple of times did it really dawn on me the need to be very thoughtful about what to say to someone else going through the same situation
That’s so true. Sometimes it takes us to be on the other side to know exactly how comments like that really feel.
Yes indeed,