Be a hero for yourself. Do not always hope to others

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As a social being, you can not escape from mutual help and complement each other. In addition to lightning, these attitudes are also the ones that tighten the relationship you have with friends and family.

You are the captain of a ship named your own life. If there are things that can be done alone, do not expect other people half to death. Because humans have the provision and the power to strive. Loss if you do not use it?

Well, so you more enthusiasm transformed to become a champion for yourself, then read the contents of my writing below.

Depending on others is a lot of conveniences. But unfortunately, if you continue to depend, when can you be independent? In addition, the ease with which you get baseball can provide a challenge to you to face things or more difficult situations out there.

Unlike when you are determined to escape from dependence with the help of others, even for something small and trivial. Challenges trigger you to continue to build self-defense. Concerns make you even stronger against any situation. By itself you have become a hero for yourself.

Everyone has their own business. Occasionally they may be able to help you, but when their personal interests are greater, will you still be counting on them? Given their time and energy is not for you alone, there are many other things that need it instead of you.

You must know yourself, know which things you can still try yourself, with things that have been tried to try but still need the help of others. Therefore, from now cultivate your mind to hesitate to ask for help to others. If you do not want to, you will rely more on all things to yourself.

This life is hard. But the harshness of life is a blessing that you can not waste it. Later the struggle will be a story that you can share with the children and grandchildren. At least for future generations, be proud of your figure. Although not a champion for many people, but you still champion for yourself.

You have become a champion for feelings, thoughts, until the trivial things that existed on a day-to-day basis, just like doing your own tasks or your own work as well as possible. Anyway, for the problem of handling personal affairs related to such needs you have no doubt.

Do not miss also to be a whiz in terms of material. It's useless a hard worker, but it turns out your income lost so without any clarity. Not only can not nabbing, even every end of the month before the salary comes your pocket is dying first.

Just like advice, better hands on top than the hand below. Asking for help requires your hand to be downstairs, just accept any help that comes and just holds it. Gradually, the habit of putting a hand down even makes you a coward for hiding behind the hands of others.

Different when you decide to become a hero yourself. At least, even if you do not raise your hand to help with bigger things, you still can help others for simple things. Anyway you're not waiting for people's help.

Take a look at the movies or the stories, where are the underrated whizs? When you become a champion for yourself, your self will automatically look more assertive. That assertiveness is also the basis of others to measure and assess your ability. Once they know what you are like, you can be sure they will hesitate to sort or just bother you.

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