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RE: I'm Genuinely Curious--What Do Men Actually Expect When They Catcall a Woman?
Great story. Thanks for sharing. Yes, I don't know any women who like being catcalled. It makes us feel ill at ease, and makes us wonder if the man or men doing it mean us harm.
Your welcome. Although it is inconsiderate, I've never seen anyone do it to be intentionally harmful. It's just that they do not have a better concept to work with. Obviously, some have done it out of animosity, in some cases. Most confrontational situations can be minimized by breaking rapport. Rapport is all about similarity. About the matching "vibe" so to speak. If you mismatch the other persons "vibe', you can avoid a lot of problems.. When I think of rapport, I always think of the Jerry Springer show. While the content of the argument suggests that they disagree, their underlying "vibe" shows that they match each other perfectly. Do you see how that happens?.. You may have to look some reruns on Youtube or wherever to watch old Jerry Springer episodes these days.