Help! My Boyfriend Won't Marry Me! What Should I Do?

in #life6 years ago


Question: “I am in a happy, long term relationship with a wonderful partner. We have built a great life together and share life goals in common. However, we diverge on the idea of marriage. I feel that it's important to have a proper marriage in place to create security, but my partner feels strongly that legal marriage means that we are inviting the state into our relationship, and that this would create a power imbalance in the relationship in my favor. He prefers that we stay unmarried but committed as if we were married. My father agrees with him and urges us NOT to get married. Please help me puzzle this out and understand the philosophical implications, so that my man and I can both get what we need.”

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Bitch deal with it or leave!
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I can’t deal with fellow females who complain like this!

Gonna watch now but I’m dreading it

Watching this now! Always impressive have quickly Stefan can cut right to the core of a situation (he reaches this one in record time hah)

Commit to creating a pragmatic relationship that will benefit your potential children and try to be subjective in the face of modern propaganda, that would be a start. Great to see your work on Steem is awesome Stephan, long time fan here. Would be great if you could do an updated video of your opinion of the crypto space. Been a while since I've heard your perspective on then matter.

Answer:

Search for an alternative society and state, who respects the privacy of a person and a partnership and does NOT interfere with your partners (valid!) wishes. You both have to be willing to make the big step forward, and change your life in that direction.

You'll find no solution at all in the so called "western societies"...

I know this comment is not part of the content, but I need your help Stefan.

Facebook won't let me delete my account, I have been trying for over a week, i've left messages, they don't get answered, i've posted offensive memes, offensive comments and they finally gave me a 30 day ban today which i'm partially happy with but I want my account deleted and they will not oblige. I've tried going at it the usual way but it takes me to a clear screen, i've given a friend of mine access to my facebook and he can't delete it either, but when he goes to his account, he can delete his, but not mine.

It's starting to feel like Hotel California.. If you can address this to your followers that Facebook is not allowing some people to delete, maybe this would expose the evil that Facebook poses to free speech. Sure, I could just not login and be done with it, but I want to know that my account has been deleted. (inb4 facebook will still retain your data after the deletion).

Thanks!
https://steemit.com/technology/@psilovybin/hotel-facebook-or-how-i-learned-the-facebook-is-abolute-evil

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