MATURE AUDIENCES ONLY.

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Forbidden words...
Money and Sex

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From the moment of birth, we were moulded by society. Surprise surprise, the very same society where the majority are broke as fuck. As the Multi-Millionaire entrepreneur, Dan Lok would say, "you can't get rich, listening to the poor".

Growing up, we're made to conform to the "system". Either our parents, 'that always knows what's best', or societal pressure, or fear of missing out etc.

Basically, Study > get a degree > Get a JOB > get married > raise kids > grow old > die.
Ahhh, What an exquisite life.
One malady of our lives is that we spent most of it "earning a living" then, retire when we hit the end of the rope.

-Regular Vacations?
Nope, too expensive.

-Better lifestyle?
Nope, can't afford it.

-Get rich?
I'll get a job and wait for God's time.

-How about you getting mentored by renowned entrepreneurs?
No, I'll just work 9am-5pm (in a soul-crushing job)

-Really?
Yeah, God will provide, in his own time, (I'll just sit back and do nothing with all the resources God has already provided, literally staring at me in the fucking face)

Source

-Hey, haven't you noticed?
We get paid just enough to come crawling back for the next paycheck. Same routine,
EVERY.
SINGLE.
WEEK.
Posting TGIF(Thank God its Friday), scrolling through social media to catch up with people that are "living it" and feeling left out. Weekends, you "relax".

Basically, SLAVE 5 days, get 2 days off.
What lies at the end of that though?

If you're lucky enough to survive the stress without dying untimely. Congratulations...
You're 65, wrinkly as fuck from accumulated stress... Retirement time.

"Thank you for your hard work, you will receive Pension monthly"

Translation, You can now get paid for doing nothing but chill.
We've finally gotten a "passive income" stream, no more 9-5, no more exchanging time for money.

Sweet deal,
All we had to do was slave away for decades, get old and retire.

NEWSFLASH: Jeff Bezos has finally overthrown Bill Gates as the world richest man...

You sit your old ass down to watch the shit, doing nothing or stravaiging while waiting for your chicken feeds called pension at the end of the month.

THAT'S FUCKED UP.

Do you really want to spend the majority of your life, poor?
Even worse, your entire youth, in pursuit of cash. Oh yeah, retirement. You don't have to work anymore and you'll get money from the government.

Is that when you want to get the freedom to "start" doing what you really want to do? When you're 65+?
How much time did you spend with your kids while rushing off early to work and coming home late? Probably Pissed off and stressed out of your mind. With that hectic lifestyle, How can you sexually satisfy your partner?

Growing up, I heard lots of things about sex, most of it was bullshit.
Back in Highschool, a middle-aged woman said, "youths are always in a hurry, someday your husband will tap you to have sex and you wouldn't be in the mood. In time, You'll get bored of it". Wow. So, that's "the reality" she accepted.

Please, let's observe a Moment of silence for her husband.

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Dr Maureen, a sex therapist on TedX once said, "You can have sex no matter how old you get". But how many know that? Go check out her speech on YouTube.

They'll rather tell you, "You'll get pregnant if you hug (or French kiss) a guy"

The only sex Ed we'll probably ever get is "use a condom" and STDs.

With all this shade and fear, guys hit major performance anxiety and lack sexual confidence. The recipe for creating a cranky sexually dissatisfied partner. We've all met a lot of them. Yup, those women that would want to bite your head off for no reason.

Guys' sexual fears:
"What if I cum too fast?"
"What if I'm not able to pleasure her well?"
"What if she doesn't reach orgasm?"
"What if I'm below average?"
"What if my dick is cursed?" (Lmao)
(Feel free to add more to this list. Oh and Ladies' sexual fears too)

Knowing he'll be the one in lead, he has to know what to do. Imagine trying to ask your school teachers how to fuck or worse, ask your parents. You'll probably hang yourself just thinking about it, we also wouldn't want to seem clueless in front of our sexual partner
so, what does an average guy do? Last resort, Look up porn.

Learning to have sex through porn is one of the worst mistakes most guys have made, including me, well, who can blame us, with all the shade they cast on actual sex, we start to believe that porn is how sex really is.
Then again, left to our half-ass sex ed, A typical guy and girl would have no idea how to fuck. Period. All we would know by instinct is how to procreate, a.k.a penis goes into the vagina. The end. nobody wants to talk about recreational sex since it's "Wrong". Wow.

Lots of guys that "got good", learnt by trial and error. If only that works as well as we think. Most girls would rather fake orgasm and tell us how good we are than tell us what she would like to actually enjoy the experience.

Hey, I'm not here to point fingers, surely, they could be put to better use. I'm simply saying, having an open Communication channel with your partner during sex (and every other part of your relationship, really) is well recommended. Saying what you'd want would go a long way than assuming the other "should know" and leaving everything up to them and then complain to your friends.

Ladies, we don't read minds, quit faking and tell us what you want.

Guys, spend more time on foreplay, she needs to be fully engorged (fully erect, yup, ladies have as much erectile muscle as we do. The clitoris is the visible part of it, but that's just the surface, it goes deeper inside),
Ladies, give better head.
There's a headstart If you don't talk or voice these things out, good luck to you two. Don't forget to speak politely and intimately.

Let's put it this way, you go to a restaurant, they don't give you a menu, they just serve you. Okay, you eat, you're hungry. No problem.

Next time, you come back, they serve you the same thing. Hmm, okay? you eat and leave.

Next time, the same thing.
Next time, the same thing.
Next time, the same thing.
Even reading that line over and over is boring as fuck.
They serve you the same thing, every single time. Nothing to look forward to, you already know what you'll get.

You'll eventually stop going to that restaurant right?

If you said "Yes", now you know why most couples don't have sex anymore. NO VARIETY, JUST SAME OLD SEX ROUTINE. The trap you'll most likely fall into if all this "communication" thing sounds embarrassing to you.

If you said, "No, I'll keep coming back". Prepare to fake so hard, you'll be an award-winning actress, nominated for the Oscars.

If you said, "No, I'll let the management know about it and try to get a variety". Good thinking.

A wise manager would apologize, promise you a different experience next time and look into getting menus done.

The next time you come, you can't help but feel excited a bit that something unexpected might happen this time. Probably how you felt the first time you came to the restaurant before routine killed it.

You take a seat and wait a bit, the manager comes around himself, starts you off with appetizers and hands you a menu, with a smile and waits on your order.

You pick what you like and you're served the best meal you ever had.

Trust me, you'll be back for more next time.

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Yup, that's basically it... You won't believe, millions of couples all over the world haven't figured it out yet.
• It gets so bad for some, the very touch of the other, triggers streams of negative emotions and disgust. Why not try to work things out? Explain to the other, meet sex therapists etc bring back passion into your relationship. Yup, it's doable. But, it starts with communication

• A man that gets rejected over and over by his partner, why wouldn't he develop erectile dysfunction? His sexual confidence goes wayyyyy low because it takes a lot to try again after being utterly rejected like trash. How about she communicates with him and let him in on what the problem is and then they seek help. Again, communication

• A lady that is too sexually active for her partner to handle, why wouldn't she cook her own meal?
couldn't resist putting it that way, I'll still say it directly, so, listen up, sex toys can replace inactive sex partners, period. Oh, and it goes both ways, guys and ladies.
When sex dolls hit the market, we saw lots of complaints and shit from self-appointed critiques, all over social media, my opinion is, guys wouldn't need to spend that much money if his partner sexually satisfies him. Rather than waste time yapping on social media about how bad it is, use that time to give your partner good head. Then again, why spend at all if we can get some on the side. Don't forget, women love a man in a relationship.

For real, Sex is very necessary to keep couples together. You read right, Partners release hormones that keep them together, thanks to sex. But, They'll rather tell you that sex is evil.

But hey, back to our restaurant analogy. What happens if the restaurant you picked isn't serving as well as you'd want, the manager doesn't want to listen to you and insists on doing it their way. What would you do?

... You'll eventually get sick of the crap they serve every time and look for a better restaurant, that has a fucking menu filled with delicious meals you crave. It is only a matter of time.

Or, What if the restaurant is hardly ever open when you're hungry? Guys can relate to this one more

Common sense, you'll find a new one. again, only a matter of time.

Yup, both cases, that's called "Cheating". People say that men cheat to stay in a relationship, while women cheat to leave. I can't vouch for that but it sounds legit to me. Chris Rock once said, "What do women want? - Everything. What do men want? 3 things:
-Food
-Sex
-Silence.
Feed us, fuck us and shut the fuck up". Lol.

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Routine sex is boring. Spice it up. Variety. Have a communication channel open. "What would you like, babe?"

I'm sure guys would go, "she'll never say what she wants", well, that's up to you and how your relationship is.
If she doesn't feel safe to tell you everything if you don't create the air that it is okay to be open about her desires if she doesn't feel safe to totally let go of herself and leave of all her to you...
she'll never achieve as many orgasms as you'd both want. Hell, you'll be lucky if she hits one. There are different spots on her body that can lead her to climax, not just penetration

If you're able to drive her crazy with pleasure in a variety of ways, she'll think about you all day and can't wait to rip your clothes off and get some more next time. LADIES LOVE TO NETFLIX AND CHILL AS MUCH AS GUYS, EVEN MORE THAN GUYS, plus, She wants sex in the morning.

On the flip side, if you two are stuck in a routine, well, good luck trying to get her to have sex at all. Your balls will be so blue, you'll be called Papa Smurf.

oh, I didn't talk much about what pisses off women during sex and actually makes it harder for her to reach orgasm. One of them is "taking your mind off the pleasure so you can keep going". Thinking about dead birds and shit, Soon as your mind wanders, she knows and she doesn't like it. So, your trying to stay longer doing that is self-sabotage. There's more but I didn't go into it much because we'll be here all day.

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"Why should I listen to you on this subject?",
-you shouldn't,
Go take it up with my sex/relationship coaches, Gabrielle Moore and Susan Bratton trusted sex adviser to millions. Start your own journey with them, They will help you out a ton, debunk all the stupid myths we all believe about the other gender, keep your relationship in order, restore that passion and teach you how to stay together and be happy.

Here's how I see it, No matter who you are, you're gonna fuck sometime, period. Married or not, unless priest, you're better off listening to experts and learning more about sex starting now. I've never heard of a lady that orgasm ten times during sex, going out to cheat (I've seen and heard sexually satisfied women talk about their man) Or a guy that gets as much sex as he truly wants, cheating. It makes no sense to me.

A great sex life, a great life in general, you need to have more time and energy on your hands to spend with your partner and do what makes you happy. Seeing as the most time and strength consuming shit we do is "earning money", well, how about you learn a high-income skill. A high-income skill is such that makes you $10k+ monthly while barely doing much, what if you set up a passive income stream, get money rolling into your bank while you sleep.

What would you do with all that money and freedom? Well, your imagination is the only limitation I see. I'm sure you're wondering how to get these, Look up Dan Lok on YouTube. Learn from the rich and get your mindset reset, you'll be well on your path to success over time. If you then want to pick up the high-income skill from him, you have to invest, since its a private mentorship. Pick up his free ebook "F.U money" and read that shit like gospel. You can also look up Dan Pena, Warren Buffet, Zig Zigler, etc, I can't this stress enough. You can't get rich, listening to the poor, rest assured, my words stem from intense training by millionaires and billionaires overtime.

My business partner and I are building up our company, A brand strategy, Animation and Design company, to overtime, invest in ourselves and gain our freedom papers. He dropped out of college but that doesnt make me any better than him. We met by fate later on, and made a business off doing what we love.
A lot of people are too focused on the process and not the outcome. Hell, they'll even stop you if you branch off the "process" they know. The outcome is to "be successful and happy", right?
But society makes it sound like "degree > job > car" is the only way to get there. You spend years of your life doing what you hate, getting a degree on a course you couldn't give a fuck about, just to work all week at a job you hate, complain every day, just to magically arrive at "successful and HAPPY". That's basically what the society puts us up to and then blind us of the outcome so we can follow her process to the letter. Our parents may realize this but they're afraid of what might happen if you don't follow the process. They want us "safe".

Imagine two people, both earn N150k monthly,
one of them: work 5 days a week, government employee,
the other: work a few hours in 2 days weekly. Entrepreneur.
Which one of them is richer? Why?

But hey, I do me and you do you.
Disregard this info if you would love to work 9-5pm your whole life, stressing. Disregard this info if you don't want the best for your sexual partner. If you're wondering why it took so long to write this, its because I went on a long break from making self-development write-ups to rediscover my reason for sharing what I've learnt and what's changed my life with my audience. I have tons of mentors in different areas of life, on steemit I have @neoxian who is a multi-millionaire at a young age. He literally does nothing but to sit behind his laptop all day to loan out money and calculate his interests. He once told me that his crypto assets are just a tip of the iceberg. He can make up his mind to never work again in his life, all he will do will be to sell his assets and spend the money, yet he will never go hungry throughout his life. But it will never happen because he doesn't have a lazy mindset like most of you. I invite you to find good and inspiring mentors too.
I'm sure 90% of you won't give a fuck and won't even read up to this point. The remaining 10% like yourself, is why I wrote this.

Bonus info: Men can orgasm many times during sex too. Ejaculation is different from an orgasm. I'll just drop that bomb there and sign off.

Love