The children of today: Have smartphones destroyed a generation? Part II

in #life7 years ago (edited)

In my first part of "The children of today: Have smartphones destroyed a generation?", I wrote about how the life has changed since smartphones are on the market. Children have easy access to the internet therefore enough admission into nearly everything. 


Many of my readers agreed when I said children are getting access to smartphones way too early. The suicide rate has risen incredibly after the first iPhone was on the market and there are many more problems young teens have to fight with. 

Jean M. Twenge will put out an amazing book about why today’s super-connected kids are growing up less rebellious, more tolerant, less Happy and completely unprepared for adulthood. The book is called iGen and is on pre-order right know. Jean M. Twenge is a professor at San Diego State University, a doctor of psychology and published on August 22 her fourth book "iGen". She devotes herself in this book to researching a generation that does not only know a world without any internet, but also has such a close relationship with her phone that she takes this even into her bed. She also gives a little review in the following article published by "The Atlantic"


I believe this book is going to be very interesting, especially for young parents or parents to be. But also we adults should think about whether we use our smartphone correctly and if its necessary to take it with us all the time and being reachable 24/7. 


What is happening with this generation?

Teens are meeting their friends less often than they used a few years ago. The statistics have changed since 2007 when the first iPhone was released. The weekly meeting have greatly reduced for 17 to 18 year olds from 2.9 to 2.3 meetings per week, for younger students from about 2.5 to 1.9 meetings per week. The reason? Because young people are chatting via Snapchat, Instagram, Twitter and Facebook more often so they dont need to meet up any more. The youth of today are in no hurry to leave "Hotel Mama" and stay for longer  at home than previous generations. The development of an 18-year-old now corresponds to that of a 15-year-old 20 years ago.

This sounds so silly to me because humans have actually made progress.



What has the use of smartphones for physical effects ?


Neck and back pain

Kids these days are writing more text message by phone than to send emails from a PC, Laptops or to make phone calls. The rigid shoulder and back support with fast moving fingers is similar to screen work. 


Eye disease

Anyone who is struggling to decipher texts on a screen - either because the writing is too small or because reflections or the like make the view more difficult - risks ocular suffering ranging from annoying and annoying to disability. 


Wrists are burdened by touch screens

Alan Hedge, Director of the Human Factors and Ergonomics Laboratory at Cornell University, thinks the more the dorsiflexion of the wrist, the greater the risk of injury. But since we dont push the fingers too hard on the screen, everything will be okay for now.


These were just three types of physical effects by smartphones. 

We shouldn´t forget that smartphone and access to the internet could also be very dangerous especially for the children. Only think about how easy rapists can connect with your child via social media. The kids can also be addicted to futuristic games more than ever.


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I personally think that kids should enjoy their childhood which means - playing with friends, doing some sports activities, follow their passion or just reading books in a tree house. Of course I would allow a mobile phone or even a smartphone with simple features at a certain age but I would also keep the control about it as much as possible. 


So, not owning a smartphone does not include not using a phone! Statistics in Germany have shown that more than 70% of the children in daycare are using the smartphones of their parents longer than half an hour per day! Children up to 6 years of age, those who used intensive media found increased language development disorders and hyperactivity.

I was shocked while reading those informations! If any parent is interested in helping their child to get rid of the smartphone usage, try a conscious time out. Or just dont start giving the phone to them! 


Also a huge impact is the dinner together! If parents are sitting at the table with their phones, children will try to copy them! Use the time to talk about how the day went so far, what happened and forget about the social media life for a moment! Start being a role model for your  child or even for yourself!


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Is the whole generation destroyed? I dont think so. But if its getting worse just like it did in the past years than I would prefer the answer YES! We still have the control about our future and about the future of the generation beneath us.

Let´s make the best of it!


What is your point of you?

Have you made any bad experiences?

I would love to read your opinion in the comment section below.


Thanks for reading 

Stay focused

Love, Soldier 

*source 1,2,3,4,5,6,7- and other free stock photos from Google

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Every new invention has some negative effect. I hope parents guide their children to make good use of smartphones. Nice article.

I agree, technology is not inherently good or bad. You can't blame the tech, only the people using it.

This is educative. Thanks for sharing..although children handling smart phones has its merits but from the look of things presently, one can safely say that the demerits outweighs the merit which is not good.

@soldier - Thanks for sharing this post with the community - I love seeing more posts about Children and the planets future than MEME contests or links to videos.

I am the father of a 23 month old daughter - my wife and I have used our cell phones with our daughter - only in the sense of learning and helping to fall asleep or not get bored in car rides - and we do limit the time

On one side - I agree with a of the detrimental effects of letting kids use smart phones - I truly truly do

However I do see an amazing benefit from them in limited spaces as well - Such as

  1. My daughter learning better eye hand coordination
  2. Teaching my daughter discipline by allowing only a certain amount of time to use the phone - only in THR car also.
  3. Memory enhancing - As she has been able to recite song lyrics that I cannot even recite by myself
  4. And lastly - A calming sense by using the phone to play classical music, relaxing sounds

Luckily my daughter never fights us when we take the phone away for any reason

A solution - may be a tablet that MUST be monitored in terms of usage and used inky for educational purposes and purposes described above as how we have seen using a smart phone help our child.

I hope this insight helps one parent decide to limit, pay closer attention to usage and make them think why they are allowing their child to use a phone.

Thanks again @soldier for sharing this great post. RESTEEMED, FOLLOWED, UPVOTED and likely will promote it heavily to help it he seen more by others :)

Thank you for this great input! We need more parents with the same mindset like you and your wife!
I think the most important thing is to keep the balance and to make sure to give the device on purpose. After reading your comment, I believe you know exactly what you are doing and this is totally different parents who give their kids smartphones just to employ them!
I appreciate your support and your passion about the health of our next generation!

Our kids are the first one's to have these small hand held devices. Neglectful parenting is not new, just the tech. It's not going to create a generation of mindless humans. It will further the disparities between the intelligent and stupid, possibly better than the rich/poor or fast/slow or articulate/quiet but i can see facilities, like logic, reawakening like ancient atavisms. Have faith, not in the next-gen, but simply in @walky123

Hey @soldier - Trust me we are on the same page as you - children are not easy to parent these days and far too many will plop them in front of a TV or a cell phone so they can get stuff done - these are the most crucial years of their life and will absorb as much info as possible - as long as they are exposed to it!!

I am going to purchase that book I think to read it and pass it along to other parents as well..

mostly people dont care it and its really dangrous for our physically health and u share in detail is also ur good work soldier

Thanks so much, appreciate it

Any woman who passes an entire human being through her vagina either cares, or is not an actual human being herself. Do not lose faith!

My oldest, @walky123 , hates the smartphone phenomena. I've given him full internet access and empowered him to purchase any electronics he desires......there's hope.......

He's a coding machine. At ten years old he found a single bad argument in my HTML5/ JS final project. 2000+ lines, hours of searching, wife looks for a few hours, then he sees it in about 3 minutes.

ur last article on new generations use cellphone and now this is a great work on steemit to warn people and i hope mamy person keep care after read ur this article

So as a parents, we should make some rules for them to use the smartphone for example several hour per day instead of stop them to use coz there are many functions / puzzle games on smartphone.

Thats true, we should make rules and not deny the whole device. I mean, forbid it if the child is too young is okay, but I think at a certain age we should just create rules instead of taking it away

I make each offspring research a little and create their own rules. They make great rules, but discipline to follow the rules is pretty much all on me and mom ( @bluemoona )

its a great work and i think best to inform people which they dont know and some forget if they know and its really very helpfull post to ourself and our childs protectiomns from these dangrous uses of smartphone i also resteemed it to read also more people and care in next from it

Thank you a lot, appreciate the support!

Do you have any solution to this problem as smartphone is a need of today world I think we can only make ourself and loved ones aware.

Nice post. In my opinion smart phones are really necessary in this century but we should never get so involved in it that we lose our humanity. It's really hard to go out these days and talk with someone and actually connect without any interference from our smart phones.

I feel the same way. I wrote in my first first that I am thankful to own a smartphone. I am able to connect with friends and family wherever I am, I can call at any time and it´s also a great technology for researches on the go. But we need to find the balance

Exactly. Inherently, smartphones are not "bad". When there is an imbalance between time spent together IRL (in real life) and Internet time, that's when problems tend to arise.

Balance is a key to happiness and fulfillment!

Couldn´t say it any better! Balance is the key, totally agree with that

I totally turn mine off for hours or even days. It's a nice discipline, synchronous communication is not a phone.

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