**OPINIONS FOR PARENTS ON RAISING SEXUALLY PURE CHILDREN IN A SEXUALLY DAMAGED WORLD**

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✓ Do not make love in the presence of your children.

One of the major way children become sexually active and sexually curious is when they see their dad and mum making love in their presence. Some of us think they are still small. Once your child is 6 months old, never allow that child see you having sex with your spouse. He or she might not understand what you are doing, but definitely, he/she is seeing you.
As the child sees it every time, it will register in his/her brain, by the time he is one year , he can climb anybody and do what he sees you doing.

Please, don't say they are sleeping already. You can never tell Some children don't sleep deeply like that Once they hear the sound of your bed, they may be awake but pretend to be asleep.

The sexual 'ringing tone ' of your wife (the hummm, haaaa, whaaooo, yeah, yhoooo) can destroy children and infuse unholy appetite for sex into them.

✓ Do not undress or dress up before your children, especially your opposite sex child.

Mummy, stop wearing ordinary bra and pant in the presence of your children especially your son. Daddy, stop wearing ordinary boxers before your girl and your balls are dangling here and there like a bell. Yes, your son might not sleep with you ma, your daughter might not have sex with you, but you are arousing their sexual curiosity.

✓ Do not watch pornography or sexually saturated films before your children.

I advise couples strongly against watching​ pornography. But some couples will say they can't do without watching it. Know this for sure, pornography will damage your marriage than you can imagine But incase you insist you can't but watch pornography, please limit it to you and your spouse. Don't let your children do.

✓ Do not fail to teach your children sex education.

As daddies and mummies, we should be the first teacher for our children
Don't leave that teaching to their teachers alone.

√ Let them know their private parts and public parts
For girls, tell them , their private parts are their breasts and the vagina.
Call it its real name. Don't call it kokoro , kaikai, tolos , etc
Even if you call them nicknames, but let them know the real names of those sex organs first before knowing their Nick names
For boys, tell them, their private part is their penis.

✓ Tell them, no body should touch their sensitive parts and that, they have the right to shout if anybody tries to touch them there.

✓ Don't let any body be calling them ,' my wife' my husband. , They are not married. Once any uncle is calling your daughter my wife and you don't stop him. Every husband has right to have sex with his 'wife'. Be wise!
Control what they watch on T.V or on phone.
Never allow them to be too free to watch just anything
Be careful, there are sex cartoon out there now
Not all cartoon are safe for your children.

You can permanent the T.V in their room to cartoon station when you are not at home. But make sure the cartoon stations are not sex cartoon station..

✓ Do not fail to teach your children the pains that come with premarital sex. And the gains of sexual purity.*

✓ Do not fail to teach your children Goldly dressing.

✓ Do not fail to be close to your children. Let them be free with you to tell you anything, ask you anything. If you are a terror to your children now, their lifestyle will terrorise you in your old age.

✓ Do not fail to pray for your children daily: Prayer can save your children from sexual pollution. Pray for them. Let them have some prayers for themselves too.

✓ Do not Discuss sexual matters in the presence of your children.

If you must do, use coded words you are very sure they can't decode
Don't use words like fuck, breast sucking, oral sex, anal sex, etc in the presence of your children.

✓ Do not fail to discourage early dating for your children

Early dating will push them into infatuation and other immoralities.

Let them always say this :

✓ I shall not watch bad film.

✓ I am morally upright.

✓ I am not a sex toy.

✓ I am a boy/girl of honour.

✓ I will not have sex till I am married.

✓ I shall not commit abortion.

I want to believe we have learnt one or two things from this. Thanks for reading I appreciate you all.

May sexual perversion not be traceable to any of our children.

Thanks and God bless you all.