RE: "Thank You For Having Children"
Thanks for sharing the story!
Since you are already walking against the grain in other areas of your life you might as well add this one to it! However for you it is doing the best thing for you and your husband. And @buckaroo is right....
Psalm 127:3-5 ---
Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord,
The fruit of the womb is a reward.
4 Like arrows in the hand of a warrior,
So are the children of one’s youth.
5 Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them;
They shall not be ashamed,
But shall speak with their enemies in the gate.