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RE: Why do we get married? The perspective of an ex wedding cameraman
Thanks so much for your many thoughtful words here on this vast subject of marriage. It has been really interesting to see how open minded the steemit community has been on this one.
It takes an advanced mind to move beyond the confines of the invisible prison which has been created around us.
And in this case it takes two! I am most grateful to have found a partner who holds the same opinion as me. We have decided to put on a big party one day and invite both families. But it will not be called a marriage and will be a very different format to the one people are u sed to!
All the best to you and thanks for the upvote and resteem :)
Well deserved for your efforts. I think generally marriage is something that is just a tradition and doesnt add anything to relationships. In fact it may do the opposite and make people resent each orher by feeling trapped by the situation. I will definitely be saying vows and wearing a ring (not a gold one though, and no diamonds, her request, thank God!) for traditions sake but values and morals are not just going to happen once you sign on the line together. You either have the constitution to raise children and be moral people and show each other love, loyalty and respect or you don't. A contract won't gice you any of those traits.