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RE: Being a father, you ask? What’s it like?
First at all, I have to tell you that I loved your article. In second place, tell you that I am still in my 20s and I have my doubts about to be or not to be a father in the future, like you had many doubts about this. Above all by the fear to repeat the history of my father with me and my grandfather with him. This gives me a big hope, see that I can be different, even better father of what my father was and is with me. I did shed a few tears. You really touched my soul, pal. Thank you very much again my friend. I will follow you to see your news articles. Have a terrific week and enjoy quality time with your family. :)
Sometimes things we don't plan for sneak up on us :)
I don't think there are many fathers out there that if you asked them this same question would still say they wished they had never had kids... they tend to changed you immensely, no matter what your views were before them :)
And for the record - My grandfather was the same, so wherever the track of abuse started I've halted it in its tracks. You say you're scared? Good man! So you should be - you're already 50% there :)
Man - this is gold. This! This is why I exist - thank you :)