We probably just need a good filter to recognise hesitation, impulsive behaviour and some good thinking-it-through signs. Recently, I've kicked so many people out of my life whom I usually allowed them to drain me. Sometimes pretty blunt. Sometimes it was a slow kill. In the end it was all the same. I think that is one big problem to many: doing things for other people that you actually do not wish to do, countless of times. Just once or twice should be fine.

Cheers