Taking things for granted in our life!
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Ask yourself if you are taking anything for granted in your life. I mean anything any relationship, financial status even your talent. If so, DON'T DO THAT. You will never know when life will give you a bitter lesson!
It's a very common virtue actually. We usually think and love to think everything will last as per we want. But when it does not work like that, we lose our mind, feel anxious, get stressed and frustrated. But think, why we did not back up our plan, coz we take things for granted.
You may take an example from your life. Did not you see a 'forever' relationship breakup, a healthy man to die, an efficient employee to lose his job? Even maybe you can give more example than me. It's a lesson we should learn from our surrounding. But the reality is when it comes to our turn, we forget that. And that is the reason I am saying to not do that. It will be the source of pain for you later.
Most of our anxiety, stress came from this. It makes our life meaningless and more complicated. That's is why we should start pointing out if we have taken anything for granted. Life is a strange journey. We cannot guess what will happen to us. So, we should prepare ourselves that way. This thinking helps to make ourselves cope with any situation. Also, it's a great survival technique, I believe.
It's understandable that we love to think our life would be a smooth one as always. It's okay to think like that if it gives our soul peace. But we should make us that much strong to handle any situation, handle our emotion if we get a bitter lesson from anyone or anything. If we can manage ourselves to think this way and practice this in our life, I believe we can live a more peaceful life!
Bad things that happened in our life teach us a lesson, just don't over react/think about what happened it is a lesson in our life and we need it to become more strong.
Yeah you right we need to be more strong and move on
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Bad things happen every day and, many of them to good people. This is how life works, it gives but it also takes. It's always good to be prepared and be aware of how fragile life really is. In other words, yes, we should stop taking things for granted and actually start appreciating them because we never know when we might lose them. This mindset will not only make us more resilient and resistant, but also more at ease with our selves.
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