This article is a wake up call for all of us....
It's difficult to say No to people we are close with or to people who we can get benefit to due to the mentality of We might in the future, will need their help and we are afraid that because of saying no they will turn us down....or... Because of "INDULGENCE "....

In my country "indulgence " is the common reason why we can't say no.... People gave help and in return these people expects that we will repay them back through not saying no to any favor they ask, and we are obliged to do it .

In some case people, wanted to be recognized or wanted to be accepted in the circle they wanted to be part with. By not saying no we put ourselves to the situation just to please them in order to be accepted...