Why Do Winners Love Losing?

in #life5 years ago

We all want to win. That's why we take initiative and work. You think something will work out and do better in the future. The fact is, you do not know the future. So there is uncertainty and risk. You cannot deny that. Something looks pretty cool, but in the end, you feel like it is going to fail and it did actually.

Do you remember how it feels how you lose something?

You feel pretty bad. And you have to hear a lot of negative comments from other people. Some people say, you suck and you cannot do anything better in the future.

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The most important thing is, what you think about yourself. You have to deal with outside force and inside force. If negative comments from other people make you think you are not good enough, you will not be able to move forward. You cannot control outside force, but you can control inside force. It is your self-talk. What you say to yourself. If you are positive, you can easily deal with outside forces.

We are inspired to see successful people. Do you think that successful people have never failed in their entire life?

If you look at their life, you will realize that they are not always successful before. They have many failures in the past. People overlook that and congratulate them for their achievement.

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You might be surprised when you see successful people say they love losing. Well, you hate losing, That's terrible! There is a huge difference in mindset. If you fail now, it does not mean you will keep failing for the rest of your life.

I am also wondering why winners love losing. Winners love losing because they know exactly what to do after losing. Then that becomes the foundation of their success. Failure never stops them from taking action and work on the next project. They do not care about their losses. There are micro losses in the way. In the macro, they will win.

If you lose, it can teach you what to do and what not to do next time. If you learn from your mistakes, you will definitely do better in the future.

Thank you so much for reading my post. If you like this post, please follow me @RezoanulVibes. So what do you think why winners love losing? Please leave your comment below.

That's it for now. See you around!

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The fact is, you do not know the future.

Are you sure?

We can predict the future, but we don't know exactly what will happen. What do you think?

Thank you so much @futuremind for taking the time to read this post.

Good question. I can't say for certain friend. Maybe we have abilities that we can tap into if we know how..

I had a dream once, and it was pretty horrific. The dream made me late for work. Upon arriving to work, I passed the scene of an accident by my place of work. Everything unfolded as it did in my dream, time lines suggested I might have been in that accident had the dream not made me late. In this case it was a nightmare. It was a 5 car pile up.

I didn't know I was about to see what was in my dream, so I didn't predict the future, but I'm quite sure I saw it..

Have a good day :)

Well, I don't have any experience like that. I heard some people say what they saw in the dream, happened that later. When you say something like this, most people don't believe that. People who have experienced that, only they believe it.

There is something that has no explanation in science yet. Maybe science has not reached there yet. Hope in the future science will be able to give an explanation. Thank you @futuremind for your comment. I really appreciate that!

See you around :)

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