A Good Way to Lose Happiness 행복을 놓치는 좋은방법
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How often do you compare yourself to others and trying to go ahead of them? All of your friends in SNS seems traveling around more than you, buying expensive things, getting married, haveing a baby and living in a stable. At that time do you think 'what am I doing now?'
I was also unconsciously constantly compared myself with other people on steemit that everyone's profits are visible.
In today's society, the competition is essential, and it is natural to compare with others. But from the comparison to others, most of them are have a sense of inferiority rather than feeling superior. This inferiority is soon followed by unhappiness.
On the Hector and the Search for Happiness, the author says, ‘We should concern ourselves not so much with the pursuit of happiness but with the happiness of pursuit', and also ‘Making comparisons can spoil your happiness'. The comparison makes even angels unhappy.
Don’t compare yourself to others to be unhappy, compare yourself with yesterday’s you and let you reflect on yourself and progress in the future. Happiness is not a future event ;) Have a wonderful day!!
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행복을 놓치는 좋은방법 남과 비교하기
여러분은 얼마나 자주 남과 자신을 비교하며 그 사람을 앞서가려고 하시나요? SNS에서 보는 친구들은 하나같이 해외여행에 명품쇼핑에, 결혼해서 아기까지 낳아 안정적이게 사는데 나는 지금 뭐하는거지? 하고 어김없이 멘탈이 무너지지는 않으신가요?
모든 사람의 수익이 고스란히 눈에 보이는 스팀잇안에서 저 역시 무의식적으로 끊임없이 남과 비교하고 있었습니다.
치열한 경쟁이 필수인 현대사회에서는 남과 비교하는 일이 어찌보면 당연한것입니다. 하지만 남들과의 비교로 우월감을 느끼기 보다 열등감에 사로잡히는 대부분이죠. 이 열등감은 곧 불행으로 이어지구요.
꾸뻬씨의 행복여행에서 작가는 ‘우리들은 흔히 행복을 말할 때 다른 사람과 비교하거나 자신의 과거와 미래와 지금을 비교하면서 판단한다' 고 합니다. 하지만 비교는 천사도 불행하게 만들죠.
남과 비교하며 불행하게 살지말고 어제의 나와 비교하며 나 자신을 반성하고 앞으로 진보해 나가 봅시다. 행복은 머지 않은 곳에 있습니다. 오늘도 행복한 하루 되세요!!
幸せを失う良い道
皆さんはどのくらいで自分を他の人と比較し、先を進めようとしていますか? SNSの中の友達は全部、旅行に行ったり、ブランドの買い物にしたり、結婚もして、赤ちゃんもできて、安定した生活をしているようだが、私は今何をしている?と思ってしまいませんか?
私は皆んなの収益を見られるスチムの中で、無意識のうちにいつも他人と自分を比較していました。
今日の社会では、競争は不可欠であり、他人との比較は当然です。しかし、他の人と比較すると、大体の人はは優れより劣等感を感じます。この劣等感はすぐに不幸に続きます。
ヘクトールと幸福の捜索の中で作家は、「幸福を追求するだけではなく、幸福を追求して自分自身に関心を持つべきである」そして「比較することであなたの幸せを損なってしまう」と述べています。比較は天使たちも不幸にさせてしまいます。
自分自身を他の人と比較して不幸にならないでください。昨日の自分と自分を比較しながら、自分自身と将来の進歩について考えさせてください。幸せは将来の出来事ではありません;)今日も幸せな1日になりますように!!
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Be in adequacy with your consciouness and giving to your body and mind what he really need to function correctly are my basis for happiness.
Great post, when we constantly compare ourselves to others we can lose track of the things that truly bring happiness into our own lives.
We should also remember that Facebook is not an accurate representation of us as people, rather it's an ideal self or the mask we choose to show the world.
Thanks, and congratulations on 500 followers!!
That's so true! That's why I love steemit more than facebook or instagram :)
Thank you for the comment!
Choose your own path and be happy with it, thats important I think
@michiel Thanks for the great comment!
Thank you ramen girl. Its amazing Post. I do what makes me happy. I travel around the World and live my life.
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I can see that you're a happy person from your profile picture already!! :) I agree with you! Enjoying my life is the most important to me too :) Thanks for the comment!
strongly agree on ur posting. Always thank you for ur great quality posting and warm words :) 잘보고 가용 :)
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I love the transparency that ee find here. You are paid for what you really deserve!
좋은글 잘보고갑니다^^
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@showman님 감사합니다^^
definitely. Thank you for sharing your story:-)
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@joydip8116 You're welcome! Thanks for the comment! Hope you have a nice day ;)
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좋은 글 잘보고 갑니다. 팔로우도요 ^^
@thegreat0816님 반갑습니다^^ 길다면 긴 글 읽어주셔서 감사합니다. 좋은 밤 되시길 바래용^^
라멘걸님 글에 백번 공감해요 :)
나만의 행복을 찾고 스팀잇에서는 나만의 컨텐츠로 그러한 환경에 흔들리지 않는 것이 중요한것 같아요~ 영어 첫문단 3째줄에 haveing 오타가 있는것 같아요 ^^;; 글 잘 보았습니다 :)
웁스^^;; 감사합니다~!!