@enlishtchrivy first of all these incidents is really awful! Yaa sometimes it's doesn't matter how much your thoughts is positive sometimes it's turned into an negative than its really going to be really bad for us. If I take example is of my friend I said please just away from whisky it's harmful for your liver I'm said him in a positive manner but they said to me never tried to asked that type of things again.
So Yupp I believed sometimes positive thinks is awwful for us.