This is a very valuable comment and I am not sure if I hope or fear your take on my posts as I have seen you challenge many a post in very intelligent ways.
I would agree with everything you say though I would also offer an alternate possibility.
NOTHING is absolute and while what you say may be generally true, it is possible to make conscious choices to live by ideals that include service or support of others. Because one has chosen these as personal ideals they are still indeed selfish, yet they are ideals that INCLUDE the benefit of others selfish/individuals selfish best interest.
Also it is possible to consciously realize that which is being referred to love. When realized and consciously empowered it is possible to consciously ACTIVATE the feeling/frequency of that which is being referred to as love.
So nothing you say is wrong I just wanted to put that out there in hopes it may be of benefit.
I hope to have more dialogue with you in the time to come. Thanks for your contributions~*~