Neglecting your marital duties
PART 1
As soon as she cleared out the dinner table, she went into the bedroom, not bothering to say goodnight to Kenny in the living room. she knew he was going to be coming to bed soon enough. she needed him to think she was fast asleep by the time he came to bed. she quickly got into the bathroom and had a quick shower before climbing into bed. she made sure she put on her long pyjamas so there was no way he could have easy access to her body. About an hour later when she heard him climb into bed and turn the other way, she finally let out the breath she was holding. she managed to escape the sex tonight.
By the time she woke up the next morning, she knew they were going to have another round of noise and fight and she quickly said a silent prayer to God for strength. she could feel his hand roaming round her body relentlessly and there was no doubt in her mind what the expected end result would be. she opened her eyes and took a glimpse at the clock on the wall. It was just 6.am. she turned and removed his hands from her body and tried to get up only to be pulled back. By the third time of going through the same motion, he finally spoke up.
''Babe, what is the excuse today? It has been 2 weeks for God sake. How am I supposed to be happy if you won't even have sex with me?'' He said with obvious frustration in his voice.
''So your happiness is now tied to sex? You still don't get it do you? I am doing this for us. For our home and our future. I told you before I started that this was going to happen and you agreed and now you want to make me feel guilty. Seriously I am confused.''
''Omololami, you know I am not opposed to prayer and fasting. I love God too and I go to church but you cannot honestly expect me not to have sex for the next 100 days just because you want to fast''
she was so angry at that statement and she flared up,
''Seriously Kenny, are you kidding me right now? What happened to self control? This just shows how far you have fallen from the faith. Is this not the same you that used to fast with me all the time before we got married? So all that spirituality was a lie? Did we not court for two years without sex? So you must have been cheating on me.''
''What? How can you say that? Are you crazy? How can you even compare both scenarios? I was single then now I am married. Why did I get married if I can't have sex?''
''Oh so now I am a sex machine? You married me for the sex?'' she asked
''You know what, I wont waste my time having this fruitless conversation with you. I am warning you for the last time. I wont take this your fasting bullshit and you will learn to respect me in this house. If this is the rubbish they are teaching you in church, I will ban you from going there''
''You wont dare Kehinde Ayorinde. You will not dare. If I ever have to choose between you and my God, trust me, you will loose. It is God first and you second. That devil that is trying to use you, will not find a place''.
''Try me, Lola, just try me'' he said as he walked into the bathroom and slammed the door.
she walked out of the room and went into the kitchen heartbroken. As she went about making Kenny's lunch that he usually takes to work she was so sad. she didn't understand Kenny's bitterness towards my relationship with God. she didn't expect to have these kind of issues just 6 months after marriage. He knew how much she loved God and how much that relationship means to her and he was proving so difficult. We even talked about this while we were courting and he used to tell me how much he loved my passion for God. they have tried getting pregnant for the past 5 months and nothing has happened and she knew she needed to tackle it in prayer before 5 months turned to 15 years and she told him she decided to join the 100 days fast in church. Initially, he had agreed to join me but 3 days after he stopped. she didn't get offended. she decided to do the prayers all by herself, she just did not expect him to be so bitter about it. As she finished packing his lunch about 30 minutes later, Kenny came out ful....... More of these story coming your way
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