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RE: I carry the blame with me all day everyday.
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Short term guilt helps us to change what needs to be changed but long term guilt is useless, harmful and is a lie that you do not deserve.
Thank you, its hard to change aftet 25 years, my daughter doesn't blame me so that's a bonus :)
Yes it is hard but ilf it wasn't evyone would do it. As each attack of guilt comes have a favorite saying or scripture or visual. Even if you have to say it many times. It will take time but I know it works and your child needs your love not your guild. If you can love yourself through anything you can love others. This is an important thing for you to do >for yourself and your family. Don't believe this lie .
Thank you that means alot :)