MY THOUGHTS ABOUT GETTING OLD- PECULIARITIES OF OLD AGE; LONELINESS, POVERTY, POOR HEALTH AND THE GOOD OLD AGE!

in #life6 years ago

image.png

Pixabay Image

There are two schools of thought about old-age; some view it as a favor from God as they see it as a reward for living a good life, others might see it as punishment for a life unduly spent in younger years; that's if anyone made it past 70 years!

Old age is not debatable, the prettiest must become wrinkled and pale; the strongest will become agile and frail, its just a matter of time in years. Whether decades upon decades or century for some, it is one of the three fundamental phases in life with the early life/age, middle age, and the golden old age. If you are under 35 years, that is still part of early life, the middle age for humans spans from the late 30s to late 50/early 60 years while the old age sets in from 70 years upwards.

Getting old simply means to decline in youthful years and attaining a stage of elderliness. It is therefore characterized by psychological and physical effect, the things you could do before might delude you, the rate at which you remember somethings might decline.

THE GOOD SIDE OF OLD AGE AND THE FEARSOME SIDE; LONLINESS, POVERTY AND POOR HEALTH

Experience in old age varies, however; while some oldies have lived a comfortable life, some had lived a hard life and with others, it is a deserted life. A life lived in solitary and sometimes in poverty, this is not a strange phenomenon as there is a different background to the over 7.6 Billion World inhabitant.

Old age remains a natural inevitable process in humans, It is filled with a variety of diseases, weakness, wrinkles, loneliness, and financial incapacity for the uneducated ones who had no savings and with no one to take care of them. This is a stage in life that permit a high potency of vulnerability to diseases; the diseases fighting organs are now weak and getting old, just like a newborn; old age is a very sensitive period of intensive care and servitude.

This could be a stage for loneliness, as this is the period where most old folks retire from their various professions/work - employment, some become too weak to go on vacations. This period gradually brings most old people to a place where they have nowhere to go, millions of them are used to their workaholic life and this may eventually result in loneliness. Most older people find life difficult and lonely at this stage because of their strong habit and adaptability to their work nature. It is a more severe case for single spouses, maybe death came for the husband or the wife; or some that never got married, having no one to talk to and cater for them is depressing. Thankfully most developed countries have homes for the aged, but for old folks in developing regions of the world, it is a sorry case.

However, not all old people withdraw totally from work, some still remain active at this stage helping in foster homes and other senior citizen homes. It is crucial to pay a great deal of attention to the nature of old age because the determiner here is base on the effects of the early life and middle age activities, what a particular old folk has done (lavish spenders, junkies, alcoholic etc) in those periods that might have effects to their present life in the early stages of their lives.

image.png

Source

Positive contribution is determined by the level of social and family responsibilities before old age set in. Numerous aged people have taken up duties in their environment as well as rendered assistance in social advancement, they might have contributed gigantically to their child/children ethical development and individual advancement which in return make a comforting environment for them in their old ages. This outlines that society or children can really stand up for their needs within the future, except for those who have doubts over the influence of social and family duty are for the most part open to enduring a harsh life in their latter days.

A few old people breed children insolently, living a life with small or no hope of success for their kids in the future whereas living an abundant life while young, such are too less concerned about their commitment as a parent and their social responsibilities.

Hence, there are more variables that decide how and in the event that an old age will be comforted or deserted. Among these is the level of education, a source of income and maybe widowhood and if their is a life insurance for the deceased spouse.

An learned old aged person society can pick up acknowledgment in his /her field indeed after retirement which supports him/her with the trust of battling depression/loneliness and having a few cash at hand. In direct opposite to this, huge numbers of oldies, particularly in rustic ranges, are non-educated which make them at this stage a subject to serious destitution and loneliness.

Widowhood moreover contributed its share as a factor at this age. When an aged person loses a spouse who ought to keep his/her company absent from depression, co-joined with the past variables- monetary limitation. Monetary ineptitude keeps a huge chunk of older people in a sorry state leaving them in appalling conditions.

image.png

Source

As of now in the world, numerous old people are enduring or let me utilize the word left in harsh times, their old age ended up a terrible model to numerous younger people. They stay defenseless to distinctive enduring condition, forlornness and constantly in need of assistance set. This in turn as turned many into frailer and wrinkled humans. Numerous aged folks turn into roadside dwellers and bums, continually looking for a survivor means.

Therefore, living as a deserted old man or woman could be as a result of "what you work out, will work for you"



How is your week going, friends? Check out some of my latest Steem Blockchain writing below. I appreciate all the support I have gotten from you all!

WOULD YOU BE A FULL-TIME STAY HOME FATHER/DAD?- A MUST READ FOR ALL MALE

DIARY OF SPLIT BEST FRIENDS; THE OTHER SIDE OF AN IMMIGRANT STORY- MY BLOCKCHAIN MEMORY PROJECT/ULOG MASHUP

FROM CLONING TO ARTIFICIAL OVARY- THE ENGINEERED OVARIAN SCAFFOLD SOLVING CANCER COMPLICATIONS IN FEMALES

HAPPENINGS IN THE PHYSICAL, SPIRITUAL AND AFTER LIFE- An Original Spiritual Poetry Piece



FOLLOW-UPVOTE-RESTEEM AND MAYBE DROP A SUPPORTING OR CONTRARY COMMENT.....It's your friendly Neighbor @oluwoleolaide for Steem-Lagos-Nigeria-Africa-World!


Badge courtesy of @jodi.pamungka Animated Footer by @rituparnaghos.

Sort:  

Punishment! For sure... and I'm an expert- I'll be 73, Aug. 2!!!

Hahahaha, old friend; you have passed and conquered the test of time.

Hey old friend... I finally heard back from Immigration. What kind of visa are you trying to get?

It was a visiting Visa, tourist visa i applied for.

That should make things easier... I hope it doesn't take them a month to get back to me lol! I guess with all of the problems on the border, they're pretty busy.

Well detailed post topic dear.....
Old age is a blessing to some who has wealthy children and people around them.....

Indeed a blessing, but a curse to some who never planned well for it.

Coin Marketplace

STEEM 0.27
TRX 0.11
JST 0.031
BTC 66997.36
ETH 3681.84
USDT 1.00
SBD 3.77