How do I demonstrate my need for Respect
For me the word RESPECT has multiple branches. Starting first with my own-self. My own self-respect. I firmly believe that if I am not able to respect my own self, then how will I ever be able to respect someone else or earn respect from someone else. What I value about myself matters the most first then what others value me for. One's ethical behavior will to a large extent help earn them respect, but that's not always the case.
Sometimes however good and right you are some people will still have a problem with you, but then such people do not matter to me, because I believe that everyone operates from their own energy level, and if that person cannot see the good in others and acknowledge then it is that person who has the problem and not me. I have decided that the only thing that matters to me is my own behavior and does it approve of me.
If I am aligned with my own self, then what others say to me and how others treat me is not of much significance. Temporarily it does take me down but I am able to detach as quickly as possible also. Having no dichotomy in my Thoughts, words and Actions is another one thing that I am mindful about to keep my self-respect.
Generally, one loses Respect if one has a dichotomy in Thoughts, Words and Action but trust me it is not always like that. It is also the behavior and the upbringing of the person which to an extent also decides how the person treats another person. One may be a Saint and still there will be some who will not Respect you and criticize you. Problem is not you; the problem is that person and sometimes the root of the problem will originate from the family and environment that the person is in.
We will come across some people in our life, who no matter whatever we do will not like us or that they will always try to put us down but as I said I do not bother much for them, they don't really mean anything to me nor does their judgement or opinions because it is as weak as them. I know where I stand in life today and how I have earned my Respect. These weak minds cannot shake me up in any way with their feeble thoughts and behavior. You can call it my Pride or Ego or whatever but for me it is my Respect that I have earned and built up for myself.
Being Conscious and Mindful about Self behavior is the way I demonstrate my own Respect and then I believe that the opposite person will perceive me from the level that person holds, I do not have control over that. I cannot cater to everyone's demand of what they would like to see me as. So, for me it is important to understand what I want to be, and work towards that.
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Yeah true Self respect is so basic.
You did great job.
Thank you @eshacheema
Amazing content on self respect,I Hope you enjoyed while writing this blog on the concept & importance of self respect:-)
Thanks for sharing a wonderful contented blog w/ us
Pls keep sharing your blog & be happy and healthy
@nainaztengra
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Thank you for the appreciation @layersinn
Literally mam..your story is mind blowing..your story always unique and encourage the people.. Self respect is also play a major role in achievement and surviving the life..
Plz keep sharing ur post..
Thank you for sharing your thoughts @varshasingh2020
writing is very useful for understanding the feelings of friends, however, friendship is above all.@nainaztengra.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts @marcojon
@nainaztengra you have shared the amazing content on self respect with us 🤗. Mam , your content is always different from others. Thank you for sharing a wonderful content with us.
Have a great day mam
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Thank you @sumitthakur, glad you liked it
@nainaztengra your welcome
@nainaztengra, first of all let me apologies for not making any comments on your post, actually I didn't visit your post to get your support only and I hope that you understood. I visit because I gather some knowledge from your content. Believe it or not but I am an emotional fool and I was not in a position to think, to read anything.
I am sorry. Stay blessed. You know dear often people hurts and stabbed with no reason.
Take care and stay blessed. Lot's of love 💕 and hug 🫂
Oh my dear @sduttaskitchen, I understand we all go through some phases and it is completely ok to pause. Do not think so much, we are all on our own journey. I have just been on the road since last few weeks so I am also not able to respond back to comments immediately. I just made some content in advance to keep going with minimal time.
Do not take life so seriously, stay happy and blessed my dear. These little things become big burdens, so do not stress out yourself too much on it. Love and Hugsss 💖😀 and a big smile :-)
@nainaztengra, I know how much busy you are then also you take out your time and respond that is a sign of a responsible and example of a Noble soul. Always stay same and take care. Love 💕 and 🫂 hug.
Thank you my dear for your kind words. Lots of Love and Hugs 💖
True, even I believe in self respect. If we are not honest with us, than how we can aspect from others. And it start from us. It's simple logic what we have we share to the world.
Absolutely, what we do to our own self and others will come back to us.